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Last week I took my children to a restaurant. My six-year-old son asked if he could say grace. As we bowed our heads he said, “God is good, God is great. Thank you for the food, and I would even thank you more if Mom gets us ice cream for dessert. And Liberty and justice for all! Amen!”
Along with the laughter from the other customers nearby I heard a woman remark, “That’s what’s wrong with this country. Kids today don’t even know how to pray. Asking God for ice cream! Why, I never!”
Hearing this, my son burst into tears and asked me, “Did I do it wrong? Is God mad at me?”
As I held
him and assured him that he had done a terrific job and God was
certainly not mad at him, an elderly gentleman approached the table. He
winked at my son and said, “I happen to know that God thought that was a
great prayer.”
“Really?” my son asked.
“Cross my heart,” the man replied. Then in a theatrical whisper he added (indicating the woman whose remark had started this whole thing), “Too bad she never asks God for ice cream. A little ice cream is good for the soul sometimes.”
Naturally, I bought my kids ice cream at the end of the meal. My son
stared at his for a moment and then did something I will remember the
rest
of my life.
He picked
up his sundae and without a word, walked over and placed it in front of
the woman. With a big smile he told her, “Here, this is for you.
Ice cream is good for the soul sometimes; and my soul is good already.”
Sometimes we all need some ice cream. I hope God sends you some Ice Cream today!
“Tomorrow morning,” the famous surgeon began, “I’ll be opening your
heart...”
“You’ll find Jesus there!” the boy grinned. The surgeon looked up,
annoyed. “I’ll cut your heart open,” he continued, “to see how much damage
has been done...”
“And when you cut open up my heart, you’re gonna find Jesus in there.” He
smiled.
The surgeon looked to the parents, who sat quietly. “When I see how much
damage has been done, I’ll suture your heart and chest back up and there
will be pain. Afterwards I’ll plan what to do next.”
“Yep and you’ll find Jesus in there. He lives there. The Bible says He
does. The songs all say He lives there. You’ll find Him in my heart.” He
said this quietly now.
The surgeon suddenly stood up as he had had enough of this. “I’ll tell you
what I’ll find in your heart. I’ll find damaged muscle, low blood supply,
and weakened vessels. And I’ll find out if I can make you well.”
“Okay. You’ll find Jesus in there too,” the boy whispered with eyes
downcast. The surgeon left shaking his head. What had gotten into him he
wondered? Why was he determined to crush a young child’s beliefs even though
they weren’t exactly his own?
Even if any healing was done, it was (of course) going to be done by his
hands and not by Jesus! He still did care a great deal, he just wasn’t sure
why it had bothered him so. He decided he had faith in himself and not in
much else and decided to shrug it off. He would fix the boy.
The surgeon sat in his office, recording his notes after the surgery,
“...damaged arteries, damaged pulmonary vein, damaged... damaged...
damaged... Pain
relief needed. Full care required. Prognosis:” here he paused, “Death
Imminent.”
He stopped the recorder, but there was more to be said. There had to be
more. Frustrated that he could not save the boy he shouted to the room ...
“Hey! Why?”
“Why did You do this?”
“You’re supposed to have put him here; so then it’s You who has put him in
this pain; I thought I could help him! I didn’t want him to suffer! And
You’ve cursed him to an early death. Normally, I should have been able to
save him but nothing could have fixed this. Nothing!”
“Why?”
He laid his head down on his desk for a silent moment.
Quietly the Lord answered and said, “The boy, My little lamb, was not meant
to remain with you for long, for he is a part of My flock, and will forever
be. Here, with me, he will no longer feel pain, and he will be comforted
beyond what you could now imagine.”
“His parents will one day join him here, and they will know peace.”
The surgeon’s tears were hot, but his anger and doubts were greater.
Although surprised to find his question being answered, and not quite sure
he really was
hearing this he
went on.
“You... you created that boy and You created that heart. He’ll be dead any time. I have never seen this much damage.”
“Why?”
The Lord answered, “The boy, My little lamb, shall return to My flock, for
he has done his best. I did not put My little lamb with your flock to lose
him... but to retrieve another lost lamb.... You.”
Shocked to silence he knew from the look of that heart that this had to be
so. The surgeon wept.
From that moment... The surgeon sat day and night beside the boy’s bed; the
boy’s parents quietly sat across from him. The boy awoke for his last few
moments and in a choked whisper, avoiding the surgeon’s eyes asked, “Did you
cut open my heart?”
“Yes, I did,” said the surgeon as he reached out and brushed a small wisp of
hair from the boy’s forehead. Surprised and amazingly comforted by the
incredibly gentle touch he looked up into a kind face.
“What did you find?” asked the boy as his eyes began to close and a hint of
a smile touched his lips.
“I found Jesus in there,” said the surgeon.
A little girl went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its
hiding place in the closet.
She poured the
change out on the floor and counted it carefully.
Three times, even.
The total had to
be exactly perfect.
No chance here
for mistakes.
Carefully placing
the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back
door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall’s
Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.
She waited
patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention but he was too busy
at this moment.
Tess twisted her
feet to make a scuffing noise.
Nothing.
She cleared her
throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster.
No good.
Finally she took
a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass
counter.
That did it!
“And what do you want?”
the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice.
“I’m
talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven’t
seen in ages,”
he said without waiting for a reply to his question.
“Well, I want to talk to you about my
brother,”
Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone.
“He’s
really, really sick...
and I want to buy
a miracle.”
“I
beg your pardon?”
said the pharmacist.
“His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my
Daddy says only a miracle can save him now.
So how much does
a miracle cost?”
“We don’t
sell miracles here, little girl.
I’m
sorry but I can’t
help you,”
the pharmacist said, softening a little.
“Listen,
I have the money to pay for it.
If it isn’t
enough, I will get the rest.
Just tell me how
much it costs.”
The pharmacist’s
brother was a well-dressed
man.
He stooped down
and asked the little girl,
“What
kind of a miracle does your brother need?”
“I don’t
know,”
Tess replied with her eyes welling up.
“I
just know he’s
really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation.
But my Daddy can’t
pay for it, so I want to use my money.”
“How much do you have?”
asked the man from Chicago.
“One dollar and eleven cents,”
Tess answered barely audibly.
“And
it’s
all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.”
“Well, what a coincidence,”
smiled the man.
“A
dollar and eleven cents
---
the exact price
of a miracle for little brothers.”
He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten
and said
“Take
me to where you live.
I want to see
your brother and meet your parents.
Let’s
see if I have the miracle you need.”
That well dressed man was Dr
Carlton
Armstrong, a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery.
He completed the
operation without charge and it wasn’t
long until Andrew was home again and doing well.
Mom and Dad were
happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.
“That surgery,”
her Mom whispered,
“was
a real miracle.
I wonder how much
it would have cost?”
Tess
smiled.
She knew exactly
how much a miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents .....
plus the faith of
a little child.
A miracle is not
the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law.
The Son
A wealthy man and his son loved to collect rare works of art. They had
everything in their collection, from Picasso to Raphael. They would often sit
together and admire the great works of art.
When the Vietnam conflict broke out, the son went to war. He was very courageous
and died in battle while rescuing another soldier. The father was notified and
grieved deeply for his only son.
About a month later, just before Christmas, there was a knock at the door.
A young man stood at the door with a large package in his hands. He said, "Sir,
you don't know me, but I am the soldier for whom your son gave his life. He
saved many lives that day, and he was carrying me to safety when a bullet struck
him in the heart and he died instantly. He often talked about
you, and your love for art." The young man held out this package. "I know
this isn't much. I'm not really a great artist, but I think your son would have
wanted you to have this."
The father opened the package. It was a portrait of his son, painted by the
young man. He stared in awe at the way the soldier had captured the personality
of his son in the painting. The father was so drawn to the eyes that his own
eyes welled up with tears. He thanked the young man and offered to pay him for
the picture. "Oh, no sir, I could never repay what your son did for me. It's a
gift."
The father hung the portrait over his mantle. Every time visitors came to his
home he took them to see the portrait of his son before he showed them any of
the other great works he had collected.
The man died a few months later. There was to be a great auction of his
paintings. Many influential people gathered, excited over seeing the great
paintings and having an opportunity to purchase one for their collection.
On the platform sat the painting of the son. The auctioneer pounded his gavel
"We will start the bidding with this picture of the son. Who will bid for this
picture?"
There was silence. Then a voice in the back of the room shouted, "We want to see
the famous paintings. Skip this one"
But the auctioneer persisted. "Will somebody bid for this painting. Who will
start the bidding? $100, $200?"
Another voice angrily. "We didn't come to see this painting. We came to see the
Van Goghs, the Rembrandts. Get on with the real bids!"
But still the auctioneer continued. "The son! The son! Who'll take the son?"
Finally, a voice came from the very back of the room. It was the longtime
gardener of the man and his son. "I'll give $10 for the painting." Being a poor
man, it was all he could afford.
"We have $10, who will bid $20?"
"Give it to him for $10. Let's see the masters."
"$10 is the bid, won't someone bid $20?"
The crowd was becoming angry. They didn't want the picture of the son.
They wanted the more worthy investments for their collections.
The auctioneer pounded the gavel. "Going once, twice, SOLD for $10.!"
A man sitting on the second row shouted, "Now let's get on with the collection!"
The auctioneer laid down his gavel. "I'm sorry, the auction is over."
"What about the paintings?"
"I am sorry. When I was called to conduct this auction, I was told of a secret
stipulation in the will. I was not allowed to reveal that stipulation until this
time. Only the painting of the son would be auctioned. Whoever bought that
painting would inherit the entire estate, including the paintings.
The man who took the son gets everything!"
God gave His son 2,000 years ago to die on the cross. Much like the auctioneer,
His message today is: "The son, the son, who'll take the son?"
Because, you see, whoever takes the Son gets everything.
FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD HE GAVE
HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH BUT HAVE
EVERLASTING LIFE.
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children,
the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be
forgotten by all who attended.
After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question.
“When
not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done
with perfection.
Yet
my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do.
He
cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order
of things in my son?”
The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued.
“I
believe, that when a child like Shay comes into the world, an opportunity to
realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other
people treat that child.”
Then he told the following story:
Shay and his father
had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball.
Shay asked,
“Do
you think they’ll
let me play?”
Shay’s
father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their
team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play,
it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging.
Shay’s
father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play.
The boy looked around for guidance and, getting none, he took matters into
his own hands and said,
“We’re
losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be
on our team and we’ll
try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.”
In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay’s
team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.
In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the
outfield.
Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in
the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to
him from the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay’s
team scored again.
Now,
with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base
and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, would they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win
the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat.
Everyone
knew that a hit was all but impossible
because
Shay didn’t
even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher moved in a few steps
to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact.
The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.
The
pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball
right back to the pitcher.
The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the
ball to the first baseman.
Shay
would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.
Instead, the pitcher took the ball and turned and threw the ball on a high
arc to right field, far beyond the reach of the first baseman.
Everyone started yelling,
“Shay,
run to first! Run to first!”
Never in his life had Shay ever made it to first base.
He
scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled,
“Run
to second, run to second!”
By the time Shay rounded first base, the right fielder had the ball.
He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he
understood the pitcher’s
intentions and intentionally threw the ball high and far over the
third-baseman’s
head.
Shay ran toward second base as the runners ahead of him deliriously circled
the bases toward home.
Shay reached second base, the opposing shortstop ran to him, turned him in
the direction of third base, and shouted,
“Run
to third!”
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams were screaming,
“Shay,
run home!”
Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit
the
“grand
slam”
and won the game for his team.
“That
day,”
said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,
“the
boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into
this world.”
Like
any good mother, when Karen found out that another baby was on the way, she did
what she could to help her 3-year-old son, Michael, prepare for a new sibling.
They found out that the new baby was going be a girl, and day after day,
night after night, Michael sang to his sister in mommy’s tummy.
He was building a bond of love with his little sister before he even met
her.
The
pregnancy progressed normally for Karen, an active member of the Panther Creek
United Methodist Church in Morristown, Tennessee.
In time, the labour pains came. Soon
it was every five minutes, every three, every minute.
But serious complications arose during delivery and Karen found herself
in hours of labour. Would a
C-section be required? Finally,
after a long struggle, Michael’s little sister was born.
But she was in very serious condition.
With a siren howling in the night, the ambulance rushed the infant to the
neonatal intensive care unit at St. Mary’s Hospital, Knoxville, Tennessee.
The
days inched by. The little girl got
worse. The paediatrician had
to tell the parents there is very little hope.
Be prepared for the worst. Karen
and her husband contacted a local cemetery about a burial plot.
They had fixed up a special room in their house for their new baby but
now they found themselves having to plan for a funeral.
Michael, however, kept begging his parents to let him see his sister.
I want to sing to her, he kept saying.
Week
two in intensive care looked as if a funeral would come before the week was
over. Michael kept nagging
about singing to his sister, but kids are never allowed in Intensive Care.
Karen decided to take Michael whether they liked it or not.
If he didn’t see his sister right then, he may never see her alive.
She dressed him in an oversized scrub suit and marched him into ICU.
He looked like a walking laundry basket.
The head nurse recognized him as a child and bellowed, “Get that kid
out of here now. No children
are allowed.”
The
mother rose up strong in Karen, and the usually mild-mannered lady glared
steel-eyed right into the head nurse’s face, her lips a firm line.
“He is not leaving until he sings to his sister,” she stated.
Then Karen towed Michael to his sister’s bedside.
He gazed at the tiny infant losing the battle to live.
After a moment, he began to sing.
In the pure-hearted voice of a 3-year-old, Michael sang: “You are my
sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are gray.”
Instantly
the baby girl seemed to respond. The
pulse rate began to calm down and become steady.
“Keep on singing, Michael,” encouraged Karen with tears in her eyes.
“You never know, dear, how much I love you, please don’t take my
sunshine away.”
As
Michael sang to his sister, the baby’s ragged, strained breathing became as
smooth as a kitten’s purr. “Keep
on singing, sweetheart. “ Karen begged. “The
other night, dear, as I lay sleeping, I dreamed I held you in my arms.”
Michael’s
little sister began to relax as rest, healing rest, seemed to sweep over her.
“Keep on singing, Michael.” Tears
had now conquered the face of the bossy head nurse.
Karen glowed. “You
are my sunshine, my only sunshine. Please
don’t take my sunshine away. . .”
The
next, day. . . the very next day. . . the little girl was well enough to go
home. Woman’s
Day Magazine called it ‘The Miracle of a Brother’s Song’.
The medical staff just called it a miracle.
Karen called it a miracle of God’s love.
Never
give up on the people you love. Love
is so incredibly powerful.
A few years ago at the Seattle Special Olympics, nine contestants, all physically or mentally disabled, assembled at the starting line for the 100-yard dash. At the gun they all started out, not exactly in a dash, but with the relish to run the race to the finish and win.
All, that is, except one boy who stumbled, tumbled over a couple of times, and began to cry. The other eight heard the boy cry. They slowed down and paused. Then they all turned around and went back. Every one of them. One girl with Down’s syndrome bent down and kissed him and said, “This will make it better.” Then all nine linked arms and walked together to the finish line.
Everyone in the stadium stood, and the cheering went on for 10 minutes.
Source: Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen, A third Serving of Chicken Soup for the Soul (Deerfield Beach, FL: Health Communications, Inc. 1996. p.70)
At
the prodding of my friends, I am writing this story.
My name is Mildred Hondorf. I am a former elementary school music teacher
from Des Moines, Iowa. I’ve
always supplemented my income by teaching piano lessons - something I’ve done
for over 30 years.
Over
the years I found that children have many levels of musical ability. I’ve
never had the pleasure of having a protégé though I have taught some talented
students. However I’ve also had
my share of what I call “musically challenged” pupils.
One such student was Robby. Robby
was 11 years old when his mother (a single mom) dropped him off for his first
piano lesson. I prefer that
students (especially boys!) begin at an earlier age, which I explained to Robby.
But Robby said that it had always been his mother’s dream to hear him
play the piano. So I took him as a
student.
Well,
Robby began with his piano lessons and from the beginning I thought it was a
hopeless endeavour. As much as
Robby tried, he lacked the sense of tone and basic rhythm needed to excel.
But he dutifully reviewed his scales and some elementary pieces that I
require all my students to learn. Over
the months he tried and tried while I listened and cringed and tried to
encourage him. At the end of each
weekly lesson he’d always say, “My mom’s going to hear me play some
day.” But it seemed hopeless.
He just did not have any inborn ability.
I
only knew his mother from a distance as she dropped Robby off or waited in her
aged car to pick him up. She always
waved and smiled but never stopped in.
Then one day Robby stopped coming to our lessons.
I thought about calling him but assumed because of his lack of ability,
that he had decided to pursue something else.
I also was glad that he stopped coming.
He was a bad advertisement for my teaching!
Several weeks later I mailed to the student’s homes a flyer on the upcoming
recital. To my surprise Robby (who
received a flyer) asked me if he could be in the recital.
I told him that the recital was for current pupils and because he had
dropped out he really did not qualify. He
said that his mother had been sick and unable to take him to piano lessons but
he was still practicing. “Miss
Hondorf . . . I’ve just got to play!” he insisted.
I don’t know what led me to allow him to play in the recital.
Maybe it was his persistence or maybe it was something inside of me
saying that it would be all right.
The night for the recital came. The
high school gymnasium was packed with parents, friends and relatives.
I put Robby up last in the program before I was to come up and thank all
the students and play a finishing piece. I
thought that any damage he would do would come at the end of the program and I
could always salvage his poor performance through my “curtain closer.”
Well the recital went off without a hitch.
The students had been practicing and it showed.
Then Robby came up on stage. His
clothes were wrinkled and his hair looked like he’d run an eggbeater through
it. “Why didn’t he dress up like the
other students?” I thought. “Why
didn’t his mother at least make him comb his hair for this special night?”
Robby pulled out the piano bench and he began.
I was surprised when he announced that he had chosen Mozart’s Concerto
#21 in C Major. I was not prepared
for what I heard next. His fingers
were light on the keys; they even danced nimbly on the ivories.
He went from pianissimo to fortissimo. . . from allegro to
virtuoso. His suspended chords that
Mozart demands were magnificent! Never
had I heard Mozart played so well by people his age.
After six and a half minutes he ended in a grand crescendo and everyone
was on their feet in wild applause.
Overcome
and in tears I ran up on stage and put my arms around Robby in joy.
“I’ve never heard you play like that Robby!
How’d you do it?” Through
the
microphone Robby explained: “Well Miss Hondorf . . . remember I told you my
mom was sick? Well actually she had
cancer and passed away this morning.
And well . . . she was born deaf so
tonight was the first time she ever heard me play. I wanted to make it
special.”
There
wasn’t a dry eye in the house that evening.
As the people from Social Services led Robby from the stage to be placed
into foster care, I noticed that even their eyes were red and puffy and I
thought to myself how much richer my life had been for taking Robby as my pupil.
Robby was killed in the senseless bombing of the Alfred P. Murray Federal
Building in Oklahoma City in April of 1995.
No,
I’ve never had a protégé but that night I became a protégé of Robby’s.
He was the teacher and I was the pupil.
For it is he that taught me the meaning of perseverance and love and
believing in yourself and maybe even taking a chance in someone and you don’t
know why.
One
day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class walking
home from school. His name was
Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books.
I thought to myself, “Why would anyone bring home all his books on a
Friday? He must really be a
nerd.”
I
had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends
Saturday afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
As
I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him
so he landed in the dirt. His
glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.
He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.
My
heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for
his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As
I handed him his glasses, I said, “Those guys are jerks.
They really should get lives.” He
looked at me and said, “Hey thanks!” There was a big smile on his face.
It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
I
helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.
As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen
him before. He said he had gone to
private school before now.
I
would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned
out to be a pretty cool kid. I
asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.
He said yes. We hung out all
weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends
thought the same of him.
Monday
morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.
I stopped him and said, “Boy, you are gonna really build some serious
muscles with this pile of books everyday!”
He just laughed and handed me half the books.
Over
the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.
When we were seniors, we began to think about college.
Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke.
I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a
problem. He was going to be a
doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.
Kyle
was valedictorian of our class. I
teased him all the time about being a nerd.
He had to prepare a speech for graduation.
I was so glad it wasn’t me having to get up there and speak.
Graduation
day, I saw Kyle. He looked great.
He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.
He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.
Boy, sometimes I was jealous.
Today
was one of those days. I could see
that he was nervous about his speech. So,
I smacked him on the back and said, “Hey, big guy, you’ll be great!”
He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and
smiled. “Thanks,” he said.
As
he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began.
“Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through
those tough years. Your parents,
your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach ... but mostly your friends.
I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best
gift you can give them. I am going
to tell you a story.”
I
just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we
met. He had planned to kill himself
over the weekend. He talked of how
he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn’t have to do it later and was
carrying his stuff home. He looked
hard at me and gave me a little smile.
“Thankfully,
I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable.”
I
heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all
about his weakest moment. I saw his
Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.
Not until that moment did I realize its depth.
Never
underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a
person’s life. For better or for
worse. God puts us all in each
other’s lives to impact one another in some way.
Look for God in others.
“Friends
are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how
to fly.”
Yesterday
is history. Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
His
name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer.
One day, while trying
to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a
nearby bog. He dropped his tools
and ran to the bog. There,
mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling
to free himself.
Farmer
Fleming saved the lad from what could have been a slow and terrifying
death. The
next day, a fancy carriage pulled up to the Scotsman’s sparse surroundings.
An elegantly
dressed nobleman stepped out and introduced himself as the father
of the boy Farmer Fleming had saved.
“I
want to repay you,” said the nobleman. “You saved my son’s life.”
“No,
I can’t accept payment
for what I did,” the Scottish farmer replied, waving off
the offer. At
that moment, the farmer’s own son came to the door of the family
hovel. “Is
that your son?” the nobleman asked. “Yes,”
the farmer replied proudly.
“I’ll
make you a deal. Let me provide him with the level of education my son
will enjoy. If the lad is anything
like his father, he’ll no doubt grow to
be a man we both will be proud of.”
The
name of the nobleman? Lord Randolph
Churchill. His
son’s name? Sir Winston
Churchill.
Work
like you don’t need the
money. Love like you’ve never
been hurt. Dance like nobody’s
watching. Sing
like nobody’s listening. Live
like it’s Heaven on Earth.
During the waning years of the depression in a small
southeastern Idaho community, I used to stop by Mr. Miller’s roadside stand for
farm-fresh produce as the season made it available. Food and money were still
extremely scarce and bartering was used, extensively.
One particular day Mr. Miller was bagging some early potatoes for me. I noticed
a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising
a basket of freshly picked green peas. I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn
to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new
potatoes.
Pondering the peas, I couldn’t help overhearing the conversation between Mr.
Miller and the ragged boy next to me.
“Hello Barry, how are you today?”
“H’lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus’ admirin’ them peas ... sure look good.”
“They are good, Barry. How’s your Ma?”
“Fine. Gittin’ stronger alla’ time.”
“Good. Anything I can help you with?”
“No, Sir. Jus’ admirin’ them peas.”
“Would you like to take some home?”
“No, Sir. Got nuthin’ to pay for ‘em with.”
Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?”
“All I got’s my prize marble here.”
“Is that right? Let me see it.”
“Here ‘tis. She’s a dandy.”
“I can see that. Hmmmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red.
Do you have a red one like this at home?”
“Not ‘zackley ..... But, almost.”
“Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let
me look at that red marble.”
“Sure will. Thanks, Mr. Miller.”
Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me. With a smile
she said: “There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in
very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples,
tomatoes or whatever. When they come back with their red marbles, and they
always do, he decides he doesn’t like red after all and he sends them home with
a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, perhaps.”
I left the stand, smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later
I moved to Colorado but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys and their
bartering.
Several years went by each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had
occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there
learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his viewing that evening and
knowing my friends wanted to go I agreed to accompany them. Upon our arrival at
the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to
offer whatever words of comfort we could. Ahead of us in line were three young
men. One
was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and
white shirts ... very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller,
standing smiling and composed, by her husband’s casket. Each of the young men
hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the
casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one, each young man
stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the
casket. Each left the mortuary, awkwardly, wiping his eyes.
Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and mentioned the story
she had told me about the marbles. Eyes glistening she took my hand and led me
to the casket. “Those three young men, who just left, were the boys I told you
about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim “traded” them. Now,
at last when Jim could not change his
mind about colour or size... they came to pay their debt. “We’ve never had a
great deal of the wealth of this world,” she confided, “but, right now, Jim
would consider himself the richest man in Idaho.”
With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband.
Resting underneath were three, exquisitely shined, red marbles.
We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not
measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.
Surprise
Hidden in Plain Sight
For more than twenty-five years, Dr. Thomas Shipp was pastor of a great and
caring congregation that began in his living room and grew to more than eight
thousand members. Although in
constant demand as a speaker, Dr. Shipp often went to small churches on
preaching missions.
One Sunday evening he drove from Dallas to a small town to preach at 8:30.
Some people standing around in front of the church said, “Preacher, see
that house over there (next-door to the parsonage, which was next-door to the
church)? A woman lives there with
her seventeen-year-old daughter. A
man drives up at ten o’clock every night.
He leaves the next morning at two-thirty.”
They told Shipp that the girl was going to Kansas City and that everyone
knew why she was going -- she was “in trouble.”
Furthermore, they implied that the man who came each night was
responsible. Shipp watched.
Sure enough, at exactly ten o’clock, a man drove up and went inside.
But he was gone in the morning.
Next day, almost everywhere Dr. Shipp went, people talked about this girl.
Shipp asked the local pastor: “Have you ever been over to see the
family that lives next-door?”
The pastor protested, “Man, I wouldn’t be caught dead in that house!”
So Shipp decided he would go himself. He
introduced himself at the door, “You don’t know me; I’m Tom Shipp from
Dallas, Texas. I’m over here
preaching in the church. I
understand that your daughter left town this morning.
I just wanted to come by and let you know that I was thinking of you --
this must be a difficult day for you. I
don’t even know your name, but I’m saying a prayer for you today.”
The woman broke down in tears. When
able to regain her composure, she explained, “I don’t know what I am going
to do without my daughter.” Once
inside the house, Tom discovered a third person, the eighty-five-year-old
grandmother. The girl’s father
had died some years back. So the
mother and daughter had come to this house to live with Grandma because
Grandfather was also dead. Then
Grandmother suffered an illness that demanded round-the-clock care lest she
strangle to death. So the mother
was completely confined to the house. No
one in the community saw her. The
daughter did all the shopping.
That evening, Tom arranged for a sitter for the grandmother so the mother could
attend the revival meeting. Tom
introduced the woman to the congregation. “I
want you to meet your neighbour and my new friend.
This is a great night in her life. She
lives next-door to the parsonage. Her
daughter had to leave home this morning because they no longer had food to eat,
and no one in this town would give the girl a job.
Therefore, the daughter had to go to another town to work and send back
money for her mother’s and grandmother’s living.
Grandmother, who lives in the same house, is eighty-five years old and
requires constant care. Your
neighbour says she doesn’t know what she would do, if it weren’t for her
brother who drives 120 miles every night and stays with Grandma between the
hours of 10:00 P.M. and 2:30 A.M. while my friend gets four and a half hours of
sleep. The reason this night is
special to her is because it’s the first time she has been back in this church
since she was six years old, when her father was the founding pastor of this
church.
Michael
is the kind of guy who is always in a good mood and always has something
positive to say. When someone would
ask him how he was doing, he would reply, “If I were any better, I would be
twins!” He
was a natural motivator. If an
employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to
look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing
this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked
him, “I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time.
How do you do it?”
Michael
replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two choices
today. You can choose to be in a
good mood or ... you can choose to be in a bad mood.
I choose to be in a good mood. Each
time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or...I can choose to
learn from it. I choose to learn
from it. Every time someone
comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or... I can
point out the positive side of life. I
choose the positive side of life.”
“Yeah,
right, it’s not that easy,” I protested.
“Yes, it is,” Michael said. “Life
is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a
choice. You choose how you react to
situations. You choose how people
affect your mood. You choose to be
in a good mood or bad mood. The
bottom line: It’s your choice how you live your life.”
I
reflected on what Michael said. Soon
thereafter, I left the Tower Industry to start my own business.
We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about
life instead of reacting to it.
Several
years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling
some 60 feet from a communications tower. After
18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the
hospital with rods placed in his back.
I
saw Michael about six months after the accident.
When I asked him how he was, he replied. “If I were any better, I’d
be twins. Wanna see my scars?”
I
declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his mind as
the accident took place.
“The
first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my soon to be born
daughter,” Michael replied. “Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that
I had two choices: I could choose to live or... I could choose to die.
I chose to live.”
“Weren’t
you scared? Did you lose
consciousness?” I asked.
Michael
continued, “... the paramedics were great.
They kept telling me I was going to be fine.
But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the
faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared.
In their eyes, I read ‘he’s a dead man’.
I knew I needed to take action.”
“What
did you do?” I asked.
“Well,
there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said Michael. “She
asked if I was allergic to anything.”
“Yes,
I replied.” The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my
reply. I took a deep breath and
yelled, “Gravity.”
Over
their laughter, I told them, “I am choosing to live.
Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.”
Michael
lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing
attitude. I learned from him that
every day we have the choice to live fully.
Attitude, after all, is everything.
“Therefore
do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
After
all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
A
man was sleeping at night in his cabin when suddenly his room filled with
light, and God
appeared. The Lord told the man he
had work for him to do,
and showed him a
large rock in front of his cabin. The
Lord explained that the
man was to push against the rock with all his might.
So, this the man
did, day after day.
For many years he toiled from sun up to sun down, his
shoulders set
squarely against the cold, massive surface of the unmoving
rock, pushing with
all of his might. Each night the
man returned to his cabin
sore and worn out, feeling that his whole day had been spent in vain.
Since
the man was showing discouragement, the Adversary decided to
enter the picture
by placing thoughts into the weary mind: “You
have been pushing
against that rock for a long time, and it hasn’t
moved.”
Thus, he gave
the man the impression that the task was impossible and that he was a
failure.
These thoughts discouraged and disheartened the man.
Satan said,
“Why kill
yourself over this? Just put in
your time, giving just the minimum
effort, and that
will be good enough.”
That’s
what the weary man planned to
do, but decided to
make it a matter of prayer and to take his troubled
thoughts to the
Lord.
“Lord,”
he said, “I
have laboured long and hard in your service, putting all
my strength to do
that which you have asked. Yet,
after all this time, I
have not even
budged that rock by half a millimetre. What
is wrong? Why am I
failing?
The Lord responded compassionately, “My
friend, when I asked you to
serve Me and you
accepted, I told you that your task was to push against the
rock with all of
your strength, which you have done. Never
once did I mention
to you that I expected you to move it.
Your
task was to push. And now you come
to Me with your strength spent,
thinking that you
have failed. But, is that really
so? Look at yourself.
Your arms are
strong and muscled, your back sinewy and brown; your hands are calloused from
constant pressure, your legs have become massive and hard.
Through opposition
you have grown much, and your abilities now surpass that
which you used to
have. True, you haven’t
moved the rock. But your calling
was to be obedient
and to push and to exercise your faith and trust in My
wisdom.
That you have done. Now I, my friend, will move the rock.“
At times, when we hear a word from
God, we tend to use our own intellect
to
decipher what He
wants, when actually what God wants is just a simple
obedience and faith
in Him. By all means, exercise the
faith that moves mountains,
but know that it is still God who moves the mountains.
When
everything seems to go wrong ... just P.U.S.H.
When
the job gets you down ... just P.U.S.H.
When
people don’t
react the way you think they should... just P.U.S.H.
When
your money is “gone”
and the bills are due... just P.U.S.H.
When
people just don’t
understand you ... just P.U.S.H.
P
= Pray
U
= Until
S
= Something
H
= Happens
[see
Luke 11:1-13; 18:1-8]
Cracked-pots:
a story from Africa
A
water bearer in Africa had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole that
he carried across his neck. One
of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always
delivered a full portion of water. At
the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived
only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer
delivering only one and a half pots of water to his house.
Of
course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, for which it was made.
But
the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it
was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do. After
2 years of what perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one
day by the stream. “I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side
causes water to leak out all the way back to your house”.
The
bearer said to the pot, “Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of
the path, but not on the other pot's side?
That's
because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your
side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For
two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the
table. Without
you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the
house.”
Each
of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that
make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. You've just got to
take each person for what they are and look for the good in
them. To
all of my crack-pot friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers.
1.
Give God what’s right -- not what’s left.
2.
Our way leads to a hopeless end -- God’s way leads to an endless hope.
3.
A lot of kneeling will keep you in good standing.
4.
Those who kneel before God can stand before anyone.
5.
In the sentence of life, the devil may be a comma -- but never let him be the
period.
6.
Don’t put a question mark where God puts a period.
7.
Are you wrinkled with burdens? Come to the church for a face-lift.
8.
When praying, don’t give God instructions -- just report for duty.
9.
Don’t wait for six strong men to take you to church.
10.
We don’t change God’s message -- His message changes us.
11.
The church is prayer-conditioned.
12.
When God ordains, He sustains.
13.
WARNING: Exposure to the Son may prevent burning.
14.
Plan ahead -- It wasn’t raining when Noah built the ark.
15.
Most people want to serve God, but only in an advisory position.
16.
Suffering from truth decay? Brush
up on your Bible.
17
. Read the Bible -- It will scare the hell out of you.
18.
Never give the devil a ride -- he will always want to drive.
19.
Nothing else ruins the truth like stretching it.
20.
Compassion is difficult to give away because it keeps coming back.
21.
Whoever angers you controls you.
22.
Worry is the darkroom in which negatives can develop.
23.
Give Satan an inch and he’ll be a ruler.
24.
Be fishers of people -- you catch them and He’ll clean them.
25.
God doesn’t call the qualified -- He qualifies the called.
26.
Exercise daily -- walk with the Lord.
What
we do in life echoes in eternity....