CLM 449 Youth of Old Age

Sat, 11 Oct 1997

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From:          Pastor Ron Clarke 
Subject:       CLM 449 Youth of Old Age

Date:          Thu, 17 Jul 1997 00:36:13 +1000

Clergy/Leaders' Mail-list No. 449

THE YOUTH OF OLD AGE

Someone once said that old age is when you know your way around but
don't feel lke going. Victor Hugo remarked that, "Forty is the old
age of youth; fifty is the youth of old age," and someone named
Albert Fletcher said that, "Old age is the time when men pay more
attention to the food than the waitress."   And a dear old lady of 85
was asked at what age a woman ceases to find men attractive?   She
replied, "Ask me again when I'm a little older."

These are only silly labels stuck on to a much more important issue.
  This is the time of life when our children have gone out into the
world; hopefully the house is paid for and our personal
responsibilities have diminished somewhat.   For the first time in
our adult lives we have time to think - think about the past and
about the future. For many, that lessening responsibility leaves
space in our mind for a syndrome I will call 'WHAT IF'.   Never
underestimate the unsettling and destructive power of 'WHAT IF.'

WHAT IF I had done this or done that?   WHAT IF I had married
so-and-so? WHAT IF I hadn't been an insurance salesman, or a
policeman, or a shop assistant, or whatever, but instead had done
something really dramatic like discovering a cure for a serious
illness, or found gold, or climbed Mount Everest, and had become
really rich and famous?

It sounds silly doesn't it, but few of us as we approach or pass
middle age could truthfully admit to not having such a flight of
fancy and at least once entertained the possibility called WHAT IF.

We can all be insulated against the unsettling and demoralising
effects of WHAT IF if we have the right relationship with God, with
others, and with ourselves. We should know that our course in life
has been pre-destined; what we have achieved or failed to achieve has
been due to our obedience or otherwise to God.   The important thing
is not where we have been but where we are going.   If we have done
wrong we know we can be forgiven.   We have the assurance and
confidence to look to the future.   It probably isn't your birthday
but congratulations are due anyway because today is the first day of
the rest of your life.

Yet many people, particularly those who do not have a right
relationship with God, are worried and depressed about the future,
and perhaps about retirement.   Yet for years we have been limited in
what we can do because of parental responsibilities and the need to
earn a living.  Suddenly, the whole world is open to us.   We are not
heading for the scrap heap but into the most exciting period of our
lives.

Optional Bible reading: 2 Peter, chapter 1, verses 3 to 11

This is one of a series of  messages of encouragement originating
from the Huon Valley, near Hobart, Tasmania, Australia.  A companion
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Pastor Ron Clarke (Mark 16:15)
Email: ron@pastornet.net.au
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